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Elder Care  ·  Advocacy  ·  Calabar, Nigeria

Every elder deserves to age with dignity and belonging.

Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre provides compassionate healthcare, elder abuse prevention, and social engagement for elderly Nigerians — restoring honour to those who built our world.

2023
Founded
8+
Years Experience
100%
Committed
∞
Compassion
Lilian Oyama, MSW, BSW — Founder & CEO, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre

Lilian Oyama, MSW

Founder & CEO  ·  Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre

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Our Founding Story

Born from love. Named for two extraordinary women.

Li for Lilian. Lu for Mama Lucy Efu — a beloved mother whose passing in 2020 ignited an unquenchable fire of purpose in her daughter's soul.

The loss of her mother was profound. But it was the image of a 72-year-old woman — abandoned by her family and placed alone in a group home in New Jersey, USA — that crystallised Lilian's calling. In that abandoned elder, she saw her own mother. She saw every elder the world had forgotten.

Li-Lu Caring Hands was formally established in 2023, rooted in the unshakeable belief that age is not a burden — it is a gift to be honoured, celebrated, and fiercely protected.

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"In every elder I serve, I see my mother. And I made her a promise — that no one she left behind would ever feel forgotten, uncared for, or unseen."

— Lilian Oyama, Founder & CEO
What We Stand For

A world where aging is met with dignity, not despair.

We work across healthcare, social connection, rights advocacy, and community to ensure no Nigerian elder is invisible, abandoned, or without support.

01

Improve Quality of Life

Comprehensive support including healthcare access, social activities, and community programmes that restore joy and purpose to daily living.

02

Promote Independence

Helping elders maintain autonomy and self-determination for as long as possible — because dignity means choosing how you live.

03

Combat Isolation

Addressing the silent epidemic of loneliness that diminishes physical and mental wellbeing, reconnecting elders to community and purpose.

04

Advocate for Rights

Championing the rights of elderly Nigerians — ensuring their voices are heard, respected, and protected at every level of society.

05

Expand Access

Reaching underserved and rural communities so that geography is never a barrier to receiving dignified, compassionate care.

06

Housing Vision

Our future plan: a purpose-built nursing home providing safe, compassionate residential care for elders who need it most.

Dignity for Older AdultsRespecting the people who built our communities
Connection & BelongingBringing people together through compassion
Community-Led SupportCreating ways to care, volunteer, and contribute
Li-Lu volunteers distributing food packages to elderly community members
Li-Lu Caring Hands female volunteers handing out food supplies to elderly women
Li-Lu volunteer presenting a food package to a smiling elderly woman
Collage of Li-Lu Caring Hands community visits and elder care outreach
Li-Lu Caring Hands volunteers on a home visit delivering food packages
A Li-Lu volunteer standing with 11 elderly women holding envelopes after a care distribution event
Li-Lu Caring Hands team seated outdoors with a large group of elderly women who received care packages

Every visit, every food package, every conversation — this is what your donation makes possible. Our volunteers go door to door so no elder is forgotten.

Who We Serve

Every elder who needs us.

Our doors are open to all elderly individuals across Nigeria — especially the vulnerable, isolated, and unheard.

01

Isolated Elders

Senior individuals living alone without family support, at risk of loneliness and self-neglect — we bring connection and care directly to their lives.

02

Abuse Survivors

Elderly individuals experiencing or recovering from abuse and mistreatment — we provide safe spaces, advocacy, and compassionate resources.

03

Rural Communities

Elders in underserved rural areas across Cross River State with limited access to healthcare — we extend our reach without compromise.

04

Family Caregivers

Families caring for elderly loved ones who need guidance, respite support, and resources to provide the best possible care at home.

Lilian Oyama, MSW, BSW — Founder & CEO, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre
Meet the Founder & CEO

Lilian Oyama, MSW, BSW — Gerontologist. Advocate. Founder.

Lilian Oyama is the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre, a registered non-governmental organisation dedicated to the protection, dignity, and quality of life of elderly Nigerians. With over eight years of specialised experience in gerontological social work, elder abuse prevention, and community-based care, Ms. Oyama is one of Nigeria's foremost advocates for the rights and wellbeing of older adults.

Ms. Oyama holds a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Rutgers University, New Jersey — one of the United States' leading research institutions in social welfare — and a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) from Seton Hall University, New Jersey. She is additionally a certified Gerontologist, having completed a rigorous one-year programme in the study of aging and elder care. Her academic foundation is further strengthened by a B.Sc. in Banking and Finance from the University of Calabar, Nigeria, equipping her with the institutional and financial management competencies essential to leading a high-impact organisation.

A dual citizen of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the United States of America, Ms. Oyama brings an internationally informed, evidence-based approach to every programme and initiative she leads. Her professional background spans direct clinical service in residential care facilities across New Jersey, elder rights advocacy, programme development, and grassroots community engagement across Cross River State. She is particularly skilled in designing culturally responsive interventions that meet the complex needs of elderly individuals living with social isolation, abuse, developmental disabilities, and dual-diagnosis conditions.

Ms. Oyama established Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre in 2023 in honour of her late mother, Mama Lucy Efu, whose passing became the catalyst for a lifelong professional mission: to ensure that every elderly person in Nigeria receives the dignity, compassion, and care they have earned and deserve.

MSW
Rutgers University, New Jersey, USA
BSW
Seton Hall University, New Jersey, USA
B.Sc. Banking & Finance
University of Calabar, Nigeria
Gerontology Cert.
1-Year Certification Programme
8+ Years
Direct Elder Care, USA & Nigeria
Dual Citizen
Nigeria & United States
Our Optimistic Volunteers

The people behind the mission.

Pastor Joshua Bassey, Director of Programmes

Pastor Joshua Bassey

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Cynthia Umoren, Volunteer, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre

Cynthia Umoren

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Joy Jacob, Volunteer, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre

Joy Jacob

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Samuel Fornah, Volunteer, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre
Samuel Fornah
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Bright Irek, Volunteer, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre
Bright Irek
Volunteer
Li-Lu Caring Hands lead volunteers in branded shirts, Calabar Nigeria
The Heartbeat of Li-Lu

People who show up every single day.

Our volunteers are the soul of everything we do. They arrive not for recognition, but out of genuine love for the elderly people they serve. Each one carries the spirit of this organisation's founding — that every human being deserves to be seen, valued, and cared for.

From lead volunteers coordinating community outreach to dedicated team members delivering care directly into the homes of our elders, every hand matters immeasurably.

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Voices of Impact

What our community says.

★★★★★

"Li-Lu Caring Hands gave my grandmother back her life. She used to sit quietly alone — now she is laughing, attending programmes, and telling stories again. Mama Lucy's legacy lives on in every smile they create."

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Mfonobong Okon
Family Member · Uyo, Akwa Ibom State
★★★★★

"I spent 34 years as a teacher. I thought my best days were behind me. Li-Lu showed me that my wisdom still has a home. They treat me not as a burden, but as a treasure. I am deeply honoured."

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Etim Ekpenyong
Beneficiary, 71 · Calabar, Cross River State
★★★★★

"Volunteering with Li-Lu has been the most meaningful work of my life. Madam Lilian leads with a depth of knowledge and grace you rarely encounter. Every room you walk into, you feel the weight and beauty of the mission."

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Ebiere Amachree
Lead Volunteer · Port Harcourt, Rivers State
★★★★★

"As a physician, I've seen the devastating effects of elder neglect across our region. Li-Lu is the only organisation I know operating at this level — international standards, Nigerian heart. I will keep donating for as long as they need me."

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Dr. Tonye Amadi
Medical Donor · Yenagoa, Bayelsa State
★★★★★

"When my father's health declined we didn't know where to turn. Li-Lu walked us through everything — with patience, expertise, and a love that felt like family. My father says they remind him he still has dignity. That means the world to us."

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Ufuoma Esisi
Family Member · Warri, Delta State
★★★★★

"What Lilian has built is extraordinary. A woman with international qualifications who chose to come home and fight for our grandparents — that is rare and beautiful. Li-Lu Caring Hands is exactly the organisation Calabar deserves to be proud of."

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Nsikan Bassey
Community Elder · Calabar South, Cross River State

"Our vision is to create a society where every elderly individual can live a life free from abuse and mistreatment — surrounded by compassion, care, and the resources to age with grace."

— Lilian Oyama, MSW  ·  Founder & CEO, Li-Lu Caring Hands Centre
Mark Your Calendar

Upcoming Events

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13
Mar

Volunteer Appreciation Ceremony

Recognising and celebrating the extraordinary contributions of our dedicated older adult volunteers who give their time so generously.

30
Mar

Financial Planning Seminar

Educational series on retirement financial planning, estate preparation, and navigating elder care benefits in Nigeria.

15
Aug

Mental Health & Wellness Retreat

A restorative retreat focused on mindfulness, stress management, and emotional wellness strategies for older adults.

21
Sep

Elder Rights & Advocacy Day

Providing resources on elder abuse prevention, guardianship, advanced directives, and legal protections for the elderly.

10
Oct

Annual Gala Fundraiser

Our signature annual gala — an elegant evening of impact stories, community celebration, and vital fundraising for our programmes.

25
Nov

Community Outreach Day

Teams visiting rural and underserved communities across Cross River State to deliver care packages and support to elders in need.

Watch Our Story

See the impact we're making together.

Watch our story — the elderly faces, the volunteer hearts, and the community we are building one act of care at a time. This is why Li-Lu Caring Hands exists.

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2023
Founded in Calabar
6
Core Programmes
100%
Volunteer-Driven
Cross River
State, Nigeria

Ready to be the change?

Join our growing family of compassionate volunteers and donors across Cross River State and Nigeria. Together, we are building a world where every elder lives with dignity, love, and purpose.

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Let's connect and create impact together.

Whether you want to volunteer, donate, partner with us, or refer an elder in need — we want to hear from you. Every conversation begins a new act of care.

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Location
MCC Road, Calabar, Cross River State, Nigeria
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Phone
+234 810 825 1495
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Email
lilucaringhands@gmail.com

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